As noted by the date on each post within this Blog, one might assume that I haven't really been inspired to write anything as of late. They would be right in that assumption. But just the other day whilst at work, one of my regulars mentioned that they came across my Blog, via Facebook, and really liked what I had written.
This reminds me of a saying, "Flattery will get you nowhere." Oh how I loathe to prove that saying wrong at any turn. As such this blog is a direct repercussion of a compliment, be it flattery or genuine. Either way the fact stands, that compliment inspired me to write again.
Now think about yourself for a moment. Have you ever received praise for a job well done, when deep down you know it wasn't really a good job. I know I have, and yet knowing that it was sheer flattery, I basked in the good and ignored the part of my brain telling me otherwise. This happens a lot, when you pause to look around, and really listen to what people are saying. That dress looks amazing, I love your voice, you're so smart, etc.
Are we so vain that these compliments go straight to our brain, and instantly we feel better about ourselves? Be it brief or, a general elevation of our status as a being. I can honestly say, Yes, I am. When someone pays me a compliment, be it fluff or genuine praise, I feel better.
Maybe I'm egotistical, or naive, or whatever label you would like to brand on me. But one thing is for sure, I am honest with myself. How you say? Well although I realize the compliment may not in fact be genuine. I take comfort that someone made the effort to fluff my ego. And that's positively good enough for me.
Sincerely,
Ego Erectus!
